I’m sorry that I have not addressed this until now, for those who have inquired what we have done/will do for a memorial for Linden. Linden was cremated and we did not have a funeral. Josh and I discussed everything at length before her passing and we knew we wanted time to grieve, heal, time to try to and find some happiness, and then celebrate her strength. That being said, the best idea we came up with is this spring (probably May) we will plant some Linden trees and have a little memorial for her. Although she arrived in the winter, it was a 60 degree day, so spring will eternally remind me of her and that is when the linden trees and lilacs bloom.
Also, we are ok. Every day contains highs and lows, and although this grief is far from over, I am trying to find happiness and fun. To be quite honest, I am just so sick and tired of being sad. It has been a really long three years.